Emotional dependency, hides an extreme fear


Emotional dependency is a complex condition. Generally it does not obey only one factor, but different elements are necessary for it to appear and be maintained. In many cases, moreover, it is not a conscious reality, the person believes that the problems deriving from his emotional dependency have a distinct and often external origin. The emotional dependency conceals an extreme fear, as well as different fantasies about their abilities and the place that deals in the world. The person feels, without any proof, that if they break or they fail…

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Vanity is defined as pride and excessive consideration


Vanity is defined as pride and excessive consideration of one’s merits and abilities. In addition, vain people take for granted that others have a high opinion and consideration of them, since they are on a higher level. Their personality is constituted by an excess of arrogance and presumption. Characteristics of Vanity Pride – Do not soil the source where you have satisfied your thirst -. This phrase by William Shakespeare perfectly sums up one of the psychological characteristics that all the vain people have in common … pride. Proud people…

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Gaslighting and couple relationships


Gaslighting is a form of psychological violence, in which the aggressor progressively questions the correctness of the victim’s perceptions, to the point of making it unsure of the correctness of his examination of reality and of his thought processes, annulling the sense of responsibility and of effectiveness. It looks like stuff from sophisticated torturers, but it is a very widespread phenomenon. Gaslighting is a term coined by the title of the theater work Gas light of 1938 of which subsequent film adaptations were made including that of Alfred Hitchcock with…

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Become the best ally of yourself


Being our best ally of yourself means being well disposed and having a good attitude towards ourselves, accepting and respecting ourselves. Understanding that nobody is immune from mistakes. It is precisely the errors that almost always allow us to gain experience and move forward. To torment us is a childish way of facing our mistakes. It damages us and does not bring us anything. If we can not even count on ourselves, we can hardly count on someone else. To face the difficult path of life, we need allies. To…

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As adults we all become parents of ourselves


As adults we all become parents of ourselves, and those who do not play the role rightly end up experiencing constant dissatisfaction and wrong love. We ourselves have the same educational responsibilities towards ourselves that weighed on the shoulders of our parents when we were children. As adults, we must self-observe ourselves, take care of protecting ourselves and supporting ourselves on a par with what a good parent would do with their child. The emotional legacies left by our parents From our parents we have learned how to relate to…

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The voice in our head that guides us


That voice in our head that guides us and takes our word when we ask ourselves who we are … is called an ego. But do you know what it is in reality? Ego is the product of emotions, thoughts and memories that have been accumulated throughout the course of one’s life. But it also concerns certain beliefs that make us see reality in a certain way, and make us think that this way is the true one. The ego tends to attribute labels, such as nationality. Moreover, it identifies…

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Limiting beliefs about money are widespread


The limiting beliefs about money are widespread throughout the population and strongly limit people who seek to improve their economic situation, here are some examples of limiting beliefs, some even a little superficial. It takes money to get rich. It will surprise you to know that many of the great modern rich have started from nothing and 90% of them are first generation. We must have studied and be at least graduates to get rich. Try to do some research and you will notice that people like Steve Jobs and…

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Youth and faith today open and flexible relationship


To arrive at a conscious faith it is necessary to take a road that convinces. Young people today are very interested in the themes of faith, but this less and less is associated with a specific religious belonging. They are looking for an open dialogue, but too often they do not find it, they look for concrete answers, but too often they have it simplistic and young people are not satisfied, they are skeptical, they want credible explanations, they want to know. Faith very often fails to enter the young,…

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Relationships are the mirror in which we see ourselves


Relationships seen as a learning opportunity. Every relationship we live is potentially important. All the meetings we experience can make us discover many things about ourselves, whether it be our partner, our family, our friends, our work colleagues or simply acquaintances. All relationships can have an impact on us. Any relationship turns into an opportunity to see how we react to different people, how we communicate, how we feel, what makes us feel bad, which behaviors make us happy and which instead make us angry. All the reactions we have…

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Positive thought your words become your actions


Positive thought ,Your beliefs become your thoughts. Your thoughts become your words. Your words become your actions. Your actions become your habits. Your habits become your values. Your values ​​become your destiny. (Mahatma Gandhi) The life of each of us is full of problems, daily challenges to be faced, and demons to be defeated. Every day we face difficulties and sufferings, the complexity of human relationships, or the social context in which we live. Have you ever wondered why some people seem to face every problem without difficulty, while others succumb…

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Syncretism mixes religion and spiritual practices


Syncretism is a religious form that mixes doctrines, liturgies and spiritual practices of different origins. Syncretism means the integration or merging of doctrines of different origins into a new doctrine, both in the sphere of religious beliefs and in that of philosophical conceptions. More particularly, in the history of religions, Syncretism means the fusion of two or more religions, or even the partial contamination of one religion with elements of others. The term Syncretism, however, has spread in the modern era thanks above all to the New Age movement, which…

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Silence basis for knowledge, the word of silence


In the condition of silence, quiet the mind and vital, you can locate a permanent center of gravity. As the Earth’s center of gravity allows us to have a point of reference for the material and the dynamic objects related thereto, in the silence of the mind and feelings, you can find a reference point for thin objects of our inner world, transcending every preference, each partial point of view and therefore allows to activate that discrimination is essential to understand their movements. The spiritual quest can only be empirical.…

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