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  • Mihael Guardian Angel, Born from 18 to 22 November

    Mihael Guardian Angel, Born from 18 to 22 November

    Mihael Guardian Angel symbolizes the perfect interaction between complementaries, is the angel of the conjugal union, but also the protector of all the unions of love and friendship, and of a professional type (including societies and associations), which favors giving fruitfulness design) and the gift of intuition that allows us to present exactly what is happening.

    Mihael is also the fertilizer agent par excellence, people can invoke it against sterility at any time. According to the traditional text, Mihael’s guardian angel loves that people travel a lot and enjoy all the spiritual and material pleasures, they will be favored in establishing harmonious and deep relationships with each other, happy and full of images, anecdotes, adventures enrich.

    Mihael’s guardian angel works in such a way that our Consciousness is expressed primarily through feelings. The Ego carries out an inner work to take advantage of the illumination that our emotional nature receives, and grant it a high expressive power; feelings are highlighted, emphasized, and everything that the person will realize will rely on the feelings themselves.

    For the Christian mystics, this inner picture, under the radiant influence of Mihael, represents the birth of the Divine Son within human nature. This Angel-Sun is in solidarity with those who seek interiority and manifest its Light in the depths of being.

    Mihael Angel of Procreation

    Whoever is born under the angelic influence of Mihael’s guardian angel will be peaceful, caring, deeply love all, and care for the preservation of community well-being. It will be a great organizer of social and political agreements, promoting reconciliations and mediating negotiations. Intellectual, will defend the rights of women in society.

    Collaborators of community ideas related to health (nursing, Red Cross), may be known in other countries, for their collaboration and dedication to the child’s well-being. He will study marriage relationships through philosophy, religion, sociology, or psychology. It will consolidate with the words of confidence and optimism, the relationships of friends or relatives.

    Your family will probably be noble and helpful in your projects and desires. If you can, you will have many children, because you consider a big family passionate. Paternally demanding in matters of culture and study, he will know that where there is a widening of consciousness and intelligence, there will be greater happiness and greater closeness to God.

    Affordable, frank, strong, capable of tremendous resistance to fatigue, he devotes himself intensely to a job when requested. His earthly mission is Humanitarianism. No prejudice, no class, no race, no creed, will have truth as her sovereign friend. It will lead your life in your own way, always in pursuit of a clean standard. It will show this, that this life is easy to be lived and it is worth fighting for any ideal.

    Mihael Prayer – Psalm 98:2 Notum fecit Dominus salutare suum, in conspectu gentium revelavit iustitiam suam

  • Sadness is a transitory emotion, with a variable duration

    Sadness is an emotion that is triggered every time we find ourselves experiencing a loss. It is often accompanied by a sense of emptiness and melancholy. If at first glance, it can be considered an unpleasant emotion, sadness has its usefulness. It can help us say goodbye to what has been and prepare a new life strategy.

    What is sadness?

    Sadness is an emotion, a state of mind, a feeling that is part of the life of each of us. Over the course of our lives, we have certainly tried it several times and through numerous vicissitudes – the end of a relationship, the loss of a loved one, the loss of a job, or following unexpected and difficult to manage changes. We also become sad when we lose a precious and useful object, or when we see our earnings decrease.

    Sadness, like anger and fear, is part of the group of primary emotions

    Of those emotions that represent innate responses to stimuli and that we all express, even if in very primitive forms, from birth. It can be defined as a psychic state characterized by grief and low mood, attributable to a particular pain and sometimes a persistent sense of melancholy. Often in common parlance, there is a tendency to confuse sadness with depression or to mistake the term inappropriately. Instead, it is important and fundamental to distinguish.

    Sadness is a transitory emotion, it can last for a few hours or a few days

    It does not significantly affect our daily life, nor the way we interpret relationships with others. Depression, on the other hand, is a real psychic pathology that falls into the category of mood disorders. And it can be highly disabling, as it significantly affects daily activities, also negatively affects social and working relationships.

    Depression also has a series of specific symptoms and tends to manifest itself with persistent sad mood, psychomotor slowdown, decreased interest or pleasure in activities.

    How can we handle the sadness?

    Sadness is an emotion that is triggered every time we find ourselves experiencing a loss. It makes us think about what we have lost and which no longer exists, or what we wanted and did not get. At that point, a sense of loneliness, melancholy, of inner emptiness creep into us. Undoubtedly unpleasant emotions, which at first glance we would like to drive away or ignore.

    When we feel sad, in fact, we lose enthusiasm, the will to live and hope weakens. Yet sadness, like all other emotions, however unpleasant, has something to tell us. Not listening to it would be a mistake. Recognizing its value allows us to change attitudes and behaviors that are not useful to us.

    We can manage sadness through reflection

    When we think back to what happened, we can understand where we went wrong, and what we can learn from that situation. Understanding what happened allows us to say goodbye to what has been and prepare a new life strategy.

    Here then is that sadness can become a very important instrument of inner transformation, not to be underestimated. It is simply about learning to live it fully without being overwhelmed.

    While in many cases the reason for our sadness is clear to us, in others, it may not be. We feel sad without knowing why. To clarify, it might be useful to ask questions, so as to understand its origins. Sadness is often linked to our inner contradictions (for example between what we think and what we do). And it wants to signal us if we have been faithful to our desires, our dreams, or our relationships. The key question, in this case, might be – Was I true to my wishes?

    Sadness and planetary transits

    Saturn, in the course of its transits, (especially the difficult ones), strongly influences our emotions. The planet reveals to us our conditioning, the fear of changing, of experimenting, makes us sad for the end of a story or a cycle of our life. Saturn promotes healthy cuts, so as to bring new life into our life.

    The planetary transits of Saturn can make us grow or slide us into sadness, but also into depression. Due to its privative function, our needs or desires can be frustrated and find it difficult to fulfill. The purpose, however, is not to break us down, but to let us find our certainties within ourselves and not from what comes to us from the outside.

    Feeling sadness during a transit of Saturn to the Sun, the Moon, or Venus is definitely understandable since in every change there is always a hidden side, something that goes away – the departure from a way of doing, of living, of loving.

    Therefore, it is essential to always try to look at the other side of the coin in what happens to us. Sadness can be a stimulus, if deeply understood, to give oneself new life goals. We must learn to accept what we feel in relation to what is changing. Accept the cyclical nature of things.

    Look at the bright side of the transformations. For each cycle that closes, a new one always opens. Welcoming sadness means opening the door to hope. Keep in mind that nothing is written and that the future is the result of our present. And the decisions we make day by day for ourselves and for our life.

  • Praise and virtue of patience, life is not a race

    Praise and virtue of patience, we could go on for a long time in the list of challenges that patience must go through in order to succeed, to be useful and not to be wasted. There is a part of us that is always active and super active in the era of technological presentism.

    Who would like to break any relationship between time and the naturalness of life. Up to overcoming patience to grasp what we want as soon as possible, now and immediately.

    As if life were a sequence of unrepeatable opportunities not to be missed. And not instead a path whose evolution is precisely made up of a weaving, sometimes slow, sometimes faster. In an alternation of equal and opposite thrusts, in which patience is the strength of the weak and impatience the weakness of the strong as Kant wrote.

    Importance and praise of patience

    It takes a lot of patience every day to reach a goal. so as not to get carried away in some brawl with a neighbor, a workmate, a friend who betrays us. But having patience pays off, and helps to live better. Even if we no longer recognize any value to this virtue, which is also essential in human relationships. Indeed, we consider it a waste of time and an antiquity of behaviors that we cannot afford.

    We live in the age of high speed, of everything and now, of disposable. Our watches are always synchronized with upcoming deadlines, with commitments to be respected, with programs to be completed. But patience requires an expansion of the present, an extension of it, a pause in the incessant becoming. We need to take a break to be patient.

    In praise of patience, a virtue to be recovered

    Yet it is precisely patience, distant from the anxiety of presentism, that allows us to wait for the right moment. The maturation of things and not their evaporation, even before having brought them into focus. A woman’s courtship is patient, and cannot be played out in the moment of an exchange of text messages or messages on social media. Waiting for the recognition of one’s value at work is patient.

    And it is patience, sometimes tiring and even frustrating, the search for what unites us compared to what divides us. Patience is what in man most resembles the procedure that nature uses in his creations, writes Honoré de Balzac in his book The Lost Illusions.

    Think of the bees, their patient how essential community work. In a single day, a single beehive visits 225 thousand flowers, with a journey equal to four times the tour of the planet. And all the activity of bees, the wonderful chain of roles and functions, is declined under the banner of patience.

    The eclipse of patience

    It is also due to the misinterpretation of its function. It is often confused with inertia, with the downward compromise. Or worse, it is cataloged as a defeat, a passive surrender in the face of the inevitability of the facts.

    On the contrary, impatience, perhaps accompanied by anger, becomes a sign of strength, resolve and determination of character. A real misunderstanding, and a reversal of paradigms. With deadly effects, for example, in relations with our neighbors.

    We have become a people of citizens who unleash an apartment building brawl every half hour, moved and inspired by that very loss of patience that makes us feel strong, where instead we have all become more vulnerable.

  • Kindness improves mood and human relationships

    The kindness we need as an antibiotic, to cure the disease at risk of contagion of a grudge that is spreading in our daily life. Between neighbors, as between people who share a road with different means of transport. Between citizens who can and must have different opinions. But this does not mean that they are forced to insult each other every day and to hate each other.

    Between single men and single women who have lost their etiquette. Kindness is that light but very powerful force that makes all the difference in our relationships. Including the most intimate, in the family, among friends, with the people, we say we love.

    Importance of kindness

    At this moment we all, absolutely everyone, need to rediscover and cultivate kindness, which Marcus Aurelius, philosopher, and Roman emperor, defined as the joy of humanity. Yes, because if it is true that rudeness, insolence, arrogance in various forms and degrees of violence, poison life. What is certain is that kindness rounds it out, improves it, and makes it sweeter for everyone. Thus avoiding a great waste of social human relations.

    Kindness seems only a gesture of etiquette, of good education, of people of the world, but this is an understatement. Kindness is an essential ingredient to keep people together, at any level, so as not to waste the wealth of human relationships we possess, to live better with ourselves and with others.

    Have you ever really thought about the power of kindness?

    How many things can change for the better, in our lives and in that those around us? It takes very little to fully reap a series of benefits, ranging from the quality of relationships to physical well-being. Benefits that we often waste only for wrong lifestyles, where kindness disappears.

    Strong and rough manners complicate life as a couple in the long run and make it unsustainable. On the contrary, as the research of American psychologists, John Gottman also shows. The small daily gestures, inspired precisely by good manners, strengthen bonds, make tensions fade, make those who receive them happy. In a word, they convey love.

  • No Contact with the narcissistic person

    No Contact with the narcissistic person

    No Contact after the end of the relationship with a narcissist is the most important rule to respect. Precisely to protect yourself from the manipulation and abuse of the narcissist. There are no exceptions to this rule. No matter how hurt you feel the contact will only make things worse. No Contact means having no contact with the narcissist, in any form.

    • no phone calls
    • no message
    • no email
    • no meeting
    • no Facebook contact
    • no form of cyberstalking

    Nothing good can come of contact with the narcissist, and no matter how seemingly insignificant that contact may appear. In any case, it will affect the process of processing the pain and healing from it, and the victim then always and in any case regrets having made that contact.

    Every slightest form of contact serves the narcissist only to hurt the victim again, since the narcissist’s interest is always and only that of manipulation and triangulation, even when it can be mistaken for real interest.

    When she gives the narcissist this chance, the victim can easily fall back into her charm, only to immediately relive the nightmare of a toxic and harmful relationship. The narcissist will reactivate the idealization phase, bringing the victim back into a state of cognitive dissonance.

    The narcissist will lie pathologically again and involve the victim in a deeply painful relationship, boycotting the entire healing process that has already begun. When the narcissist regains possession of the victim’s access keys, he will immediately re-involve her within her world, made up of manipulation and triangulation.

    No Contact is the most powerful weapon to cancel the narcissist’s effects

    It is essential that the victim breaks this vicious circle, and the only way to do so is No Contact. In this sense, even cyberstalking must be completely avoided as, although it may seem an indirect or light form of contact, it still goes to solicit a state of dependence.

    The only way to stop this addiction, the only way to get out of the pain of this relationship, is to block the narcissist on Facebook, Twitter and other social media and on mobile phones. Nothing can alleviate the pain if not the time and the inner work of elaboration.

    The most effective, if not the only, way through which a narcissist victim can free himself from the toxicity of the relationship is No Contact. Is the most powerful weapon to cancel the narcissist’s effects, although it is very difficult to establish and even more difficult to maintain over time. No Contact is a concept as simple as it is difficult to establish and maintain.

    The first aspect to keep in mind in order to implement the victim’s ability to implement No Contact is to understand what the narcissist needs. Surely it refers to control, power, attention and confirmation, but in reality the narcissist wants only one thing: nourishment, the so-called narcissistic supply.

    Nourishment can be represented by many things: admiring comments, longing looks, a message, a comment on social media, but also angry insults or pleading tears. All of this represents the nourishment of the narcissist. This is why the narcissist chooses not only a primary victim, but also weaves a dense web of secondary relationships that guarantee him nourishment every single hour of every single day.

  • Omael Angel 30 of the Kabbalah Prayer Meditation

    Omael Angel 30 of the Kabbalah Prayer Meditation

    Omael Angel 30, qualities are noble character, high spirit, mildness. Powers of intelligence and the multiplication of positive emotions, excellent health, high happiness. Angel 30 brings understanding patience, consolation, and peace of mind.

    When we are convinced that nothing can lift us from the sadness and despair in which we fell, invoking Omael Angel helps us to find the balance.

    Dramas are the angel of the abyss that contrasts the works of Omael Angel 30. It represents difficulties with children, causes physical and mental sterility, sterilization, abortions, cruelty, cruel animal experiments.

    This meditation is aimed at building one’s true self by unlocking the closures that prevent us from making balanced relationships: therefore building bridges.

    According to the Kabbalah this Name that begins for Om, is in direct and precise relationship with the Om (or Aum) whose vibration according to the Eastern religions put in contact with the divine.

    His energy is in fact capable of the highest connection in general, creating a bridge between physical reality and the spiritual dimension. A goal that, however, cannot be achieved without first creating bridges in the relationships we have in this life.

    This is something that needs to be done freeing ourselves of rancor, envy, the resistance that prevents us from being generous with others.

    Now focus your vision on Omael Name without thinking about anything else, breathe by letting yourself be deeply permeated by its meaning, pronounce this intention.

    – with the power of this Name, I offer my hand to the one with whom I conflict, even if the conflict is caused by money. Awakening compassion and calling courage to speak with this person in this instant: at this very moment. At the same time, a bridge to the Upper World will be erected in my name.

    Omael Angel 30, is the Guardian Angel of anyone born from 18 to 22 August. Other days of the presence of the Angel are – April 19 – July 3 – September 16th – November 27 – February 6 – Every day from 9.40 am to 10.00 am. Fire Element – Zodiac position from 26th to 30th of Leo